When someone dies, there are practical steps that need to be taken. The order and urgency of these steps depends on where the death occurred and whether it was expected.
This guide explains what to do, what can wait, and where support is available, in a clear and calm way.
Overview of the steps
After a death, most people will need to:
- Confirm the death
- Inform close family or next of kin
- Register the death
- Arrange a funeral
- Deal with legal and practical matters
- Seek support where needed
What to do immediately after a death
The first steps depend on where the person died.
If the death occurred at home and was expected, a medical professional will need to confirm the death. If the death was unexpected, emergency services should be contacted.
If the death occurred in a hospital, care home, or hospice, staff will usually guide you through the immediate next steps.
At this stage, there is no need to rush decisions. Many arrangements can wait until you feel able to deal with them.
Who to contact first
In most cases, you will need to contact:
- A medical professional to confirm the death
- Close family members or next of kin
- The place where the person lived, if applicable
If the death was sudden or unexplained, the authorities may need to be involved. This does not mean that anyone has done anything wrong.
Registering a death
A death must be registered within a specific time period. This is usually done by a relative or someone present at the death.
To register a death, you will need information about the person who has died, such as their full name, date of birth, and address.
Once the death is registered, you will receive official documents that are needed for funeral arrangements and legal matters.
The process and time limits vary slightly depending on where in the UK the death occurred.
Arranging a funeral
Funeral arrangements can be made after the death has been registered, although some planning can begin earlier if needed.
You may wish to consider:
- Whether the person left any wishes
- Burial or cremation options
- Religious or non-religious services
- Timing that suits family and friends
There is no requirement to arrange a funeral immediately. Taking time to consider options is normal.
Dealing with legal and practical matters
After a death, there may be legal and administrative responsibilities, including:
- Managing the person’s estate
- Checking for a will
- Informing relevant organisations
- Handling property and belongings
Some tasks are time-sensitive, while others can wait. It is often helpful to make a simple list and deal with matters gradually.
Looking after yourself and others
Grief affects people in different ways. Some may want practical information, while others need emotional support.
It is important to take breaks, ask for help where needed, and seek professional support if things feel overwhelming.
Support is available through healthcare providers, charities, and local services.
When professional help may be needed
In some situations, families may decide to seek professional assistance, such as legal advice, counselling, or practical support related to property or belongings.
Choosing professional help is a personal decision. Taking time to understand options and responsibilities can help avoid unnecessary stress.
Taking things one step at a time
There is no single “right” way to deal with bereavement. Focusing on one task at a time can make the process feel more manageable.
This guide is designed to provide clarity and reassurance during a difficult period, helping you understand what needs to be done and when.